![]() ![]() When my boyfriend leaves, my husband is pleasant but you can tell he has anxiety and second guesses the entire situation. Stress shuts down my sex drive completely so we have some dry spells when life is complex.ĭuring my boyfriend’s visits, my husband is usually in the kitchen making dinner or watching television in the family room. It amounts to about once or twice a month but sometimes more depending on how much stress I have in my life. ![]() We don’t have a set schedule but I ring the boyfriend up when I am feeling a certain way that can only be fed by the alpha dominance that he can provide. Now to our current situation and I am sorry for this question being so long, I’m almost there. Lo and behold a few days later my husband brought it up and said that he wanted to try but did not want to be there. I assured him that it wasn’t like that and I completely dropped the subject. He was reluctant at first but his objections were not religious, they were fearful and he was anxious about being replaced. ![]() We quickly learned that we had a spark of sexual energies and decided to approach my husband about taking things a step further. It was a slippery slope from there and eventually the two of us went out for drinks alone with the consent of our spouses. Boyfriend jokingly said, well I can help with that! We all laughed but that is when my energy shifted to allow this crazy idea into my head. It came out eventually that my husband sometimes experiences issues with ED and he is self conscious about it. We would stay after our church group meetings and discuss our relationships over a glass of wine or three. I grew up with a strong religious faith in the household and this sort of thing was never discussed. He (boyfriend) is in an open marriage, we met him and his wife in our church study group if you can believe that! We hit things off well and they told us about their open marriage and I found it very interesting. I (F38) am married to my husband (M40) and have a boyfriend (M33) who comes over and visits a few times a month. ![]()
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